21st
The root of the problem.
Let’s get down to the bottom of this shall we?
You guys have written (which is great, keep doing it) and told us in person (for those of you lucky enough to call us friends) that we bitch and moan too much and while that’s is completely true (we’re NOT denying this), have you ever stopped and thought, maybe, just maybe the blame can be placed on one simple thing?
I propose that simple thing is that GUYS DON’T COMPREHEND THE WORD “NO.” For ladies, it’s clear and simple, when you say “no,” you mean it. If you didn’t, you’d say “maybe.” Duh. But in all seriousness, I think about my unfortunately bad exchanges with guys downtown - it has all come down to the fact that their minds do not process this simple word. For example, if a guy wants to dance with you and you’re not entirely up for it and say “no,” what does he proceed to do? Hump you from behind. If he non-chalantly asks you to make out with him and you graciously pass… what does he do? Proceed to try to shove his tongue down your throat. If he asks you to come home with him and you say “no,” what happens? An hour of him trying to persuade you that he will rock your world (and odds are, he won’t, which is why you said NO in the first place).
Guys, STOP being so sketchy and maybe we’ll stop complaining about you all the time. Next time a girl says “NO,” just cut your losses and get over it. There are 27,000 undergrads here which means there is NO shortage of people to mack on. Take your A-game elsewhere if it doesn’t work on someone. You become “THAT GUY” when you stick around and try to push something that will NEVER happen.
